The Tapestry of Friendships

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In Ella Goodman’s essay “The Tapestry of Friendships” she talks of the differences between a friendship of men and a friendship of women. Goodman starts off the essay with how recently movies at the cinema were switching off from big-budget chase scenes and bloody shoot-outs to motion pictures about female friendships. Then goes on to say that in history friendship was really only shown between two males, and women being rude and picking on each other, and I agree with what she has to say about that. Because it’s true, in history and even movies they show men as being friends and us girls going on and talking to them about other girls. While I will agree that we girls sometimes don’t think about what were saying, we always stick together. Ella Goodman also added in this quote by Coleridge, “A woman’s friendship borders more closely on love than man’s. Men affect each other in the reflection of noble or friendly acts, whilst woman ask fewer proofs and more signs and expressions of attachment.” This quote is exactly right. Goodman then also goes on to explain that guys have groups of buddies. For example, golf buddies, work buddies, and college buddies to name a few, and I agree with this as well because I’ve seen it in my everyday life. My father has those exact groups of friends and that’s even how he talks about them, he says his work buddies and so on. Whereas girls have a special category for friends. They are just friends or best-friends in my life. I have exactly three best-friends and a ton of people who I only even speak to in class and I would just call them my friends. Goodman then goes on to talk about how, “buddies try to keep the worst from each other; friends confess it.” I see this in my own life all the time. I tell my best-friends everything from fighting with my mom, to what

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