The Nuclear Family

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Paper One: Essay 17 Conventional Wisdom Tells Us…The Nuclear Family is the Backbone of American Society by Janet Ruane and Karen Cerulo documents the history of the family dating back to the preindustrial era. Past and present portraits of the family reveal that the “nuclear family” is in fact an idealized version of a household unit prompted by the American people’s obsession over nostalgia. The essay shows the conception of a self-satisfying unit composed of a working father, stay at home mother, and respectful children is not the permanent definition of an “ideal family,” as the meaning of perfection continues to be redefined throughout time. The authors disagree with the popular belief that the country’s return to its nuclear society would solve the ills of modern life. The virtues of the nuclear family can no longer be successfully applied to the wide diversity of household arrangements seen today. Instead, the authors suggest that the people should resist nostalgic “retrofitting” and focus on making adaptive modifications to the present social circumstances. Looking into the nuclear families of the 1950’s era, the essayists explain why the past is so appealing to Americans now. They relate the peoples desire to return to the “good ole days” largely to the prosperity the country experienced at the time: industrialization expanded, real wages increased, and personal savings reached an all time high. In the essay they say, “Critics contend that by emphasizing the “private” values of the individual and the family, the nuclear unit intensified individualism and weakened civic altruism,” (186). Even with these booming socioeconomic conditions, the author suggests that the enormous buying power of the nuclear families planted the “seeds of our later decades of self indulgence” (186). Examples of the profound changes in domestic behavior, consumerism, and the
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