Many couples argue to win but over the long term this often results in a breakup. Couples could avoid destroying their relationship by making time for each other not arguing ineffectively and learning the art of listening. Couples argue about many things finances, health, child rearing, commitment, etc. in order for an argument to be effective both parties must maintain focus on the topic at hand. When we digress and lose focus nothing is being accomplished.
Furthermore, this would lead to a lot of people expecting more from relationships after getting divorced, as they wouldn't want to fall victim to what cause their last marriage to end again. This is part of the high expectations people now expect from relationships. Young people may have experienced divorce or bad relationships in their life, so they do not want to fall into it themselves, making them wary of marriage. Sue Sharpe's study in the early 1970s showed that young girl's main concerns were 'love, marriage, husbands, children, jobs' in that order. When she then returned in the 90s she found that the list had flipped, with jobs and careers being in first place.
Chapman projects the idea that the reason we take a journey in life is to seek something better regardless of the consequences. Her audio piece, “Fast Car” composed in 1988 represents the persona wanting to escape her world current world for anything else, as long as she can leave everything behind. The colloquial expressions, “I want a ticket to anywhere” and “anyplace is better,” suggest her desperation to get away because of her problems with her “old man” and possibility the lack of funds. A time transition in verse six shows Chapman in her new world. Her desperation has been eradicated but she still has to live with the same problems, Throughout the second half of the song, Chapman conveys that she has gone through the same thing that her mother through with her father.
We have certain morals that we tend to stick by, however when conflict arrises what we stand can be alternated as great deals of conflict can change a personals way of viewing the world. However conflict can also make us stick by our morals to a greater extent as we may use these particular morals to conquer conflict. in the world today, we often see society challenging each other for what we choose to be in life , particularly people being challenged for being homo-sexual and these times of conflict made them relise who they truly are and fight back for justice as gay marriage is now legal in some parts of Australia. Like in Bruce Beresfords feature film Paradise Road highlights the potential of conflict to catalyse the revaluation of an individuals moral compass, the way in which one lives and the values that are important to their existence to be realised. Therefore conflict can in fact enhance the strengths of our morals and beliefs.
They need to construct their disagreements at the right time and place. Leonora might have not been ready to talk about the issue because she was already stressed after a long day with the baby. He needs to make sure they are both in a calm state of mind before carrying on with why he feels her returning to work is not going to be beneficial to their family right now. This gives them both time to prepare their sides to the argument, and don’t feel like the other ganged up on them. They are able to have time to think of the pros and cons of both before discussing the issue.
This is where both sides of the conflict come to an agreement. Compromising is important in any type of conflict because, it will settle the dispute and calm the situation down preventing more of a serious situation or matter. Though not all conflicts can be dealt with by compromising with the opposed side and this can be seen through Martin Luther Kings civil rights act, the novel The Quiet American, the film This Means War, The 911 attack on America and through a personal experience. Martin Luther King a strong worker for civil rights for members of his race stood for all coloured people for the right to be able to vote and be treated equally and fairly. Though he was assassinated for speaking freely King did not step down from what he believed in which was that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: "We hold these truths to be self-evident: that all men are created equal."
Patients may be forced to stay off work which will lead to a loss of earnings putting more stress on the individual and their families, possibly leaving a patient needing treatment for depression. Also the patient would have the stress and worry of passing on the infection to loved ones. All of these will lead to a loss of trust in in the organisation. Worse case death could occur. 007-4.1 Define the term risk.
The act of improving someone else's situation in some way, even it it just involves listening, takes the persons own anxieties down a notch or two in importance and therefore they concentrate on the difficulties of others. Many professions where helping other is the main focus will have more than their fair share of people who use this tactic. Abstract Mrs X 35 feels concerned that she dominates conversations, that people do not find her interesting, worries that she will run out of things to say which would create an awkward silence. Self creates anxiety around certain people and certain social situations so will find a reason to cancel and not attend. Introduction In our initial meeting Mrs X came across as a very bright, intelligent and confident lady with no outward signs of any issues or worries as was very bubbly and outgoing in personality.
You get rushed and preoccupied, and you stop taking the perspective of the other person, precisely because the two of you are so close.” Being rushed and not going in depth in conversations and only making short statements is a key in miscommunication. “Communication is complex; it requires a number of skills and both ongoing learning and practice to improve our skills. Misunderstandings occur frequently, and they can cause problems in relationships.” (Sole, 2011). Having my husband not understand what I mean by such a short statement is something that I expect since he is my husband. Yet I would not expect someone that isn’t as close to me to immediately grasp what it is I am trying to get across.
People will often ask what makes a good or long lasting relationship. In truth there is no one answer, what works for some will not work for others, it’s about finding the balance that suits the both people. At the beginning of a new relationship, the excitement of being in that relationship helps us to not see the things the other person does which may cause annoyance. At this stage in the relationship both parties find themselves faced with everyday realities which means they have to work at the relationship to find and maintain a balance. When couples are faced with life changing events or illnesses the balance changes quickly and they will find themselves in the difficult position of facing their own feelings and fears while trying to support each other.