Teenage Parties Essay

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Teenage parties set the stage for a collision course of wills between teenagers and parents. The party scene is a major player in the culture of teenage drinking and creates an atmosphere where young children can be introduced to alcohol at an early age- often without the supervision or knowledge of the parent. It is also where parents play a large role in contributing to our teen drinking culture by either supplying alcohol to their teenagers to take to parties or hosting parties for underage teens and allowing BYO alcohol. Unfortunately peer group pressure is often the most powerful influence in the decision making process in both parents and teens. Sometimes denial replaces common sense, ignorance replaces knowledge, and tragically, the risks that are posed to our teenagers can become a reality. It all comes down to one common denominator: We want our kids to fit in, and most importantly we want them to like us. Parents also want to be liked and approved of by other parents. So it seems we are all on a never ending merry- go- round. So your 15 year old comes home and asks if she can go to a party and take some alcohol because ‘all the other’ kids are! Suddenly it feels like you have been hit with a bomb as you replay her words and mull over your decision. You manage to mumble a few words outlining your concern, but within a few minutes it’s all over as she runs to her bedroom, slams the door and protests that you are overprotective and she is mature enough and should trust you etc…….A feeling of impending doom descends. You realise she is moving into a new phase of her life, the stage where having friends and being liked have become more important. Your gut feeling is saying no but you want a happy medium and your thoughts go round and round….. “Maybe if I just give her a couple of drinks to take to the party it will be ok?…. I’m sure it will be safe”.
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