Struggles Of Being a Teenage Girl

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The Struggles of Being a Teenage Girl Being a teenage girl is hard these days because of the peer pressure and the push to be like the hottest celebrity. Being a teenage girl is confusing. It seems they are constantly being pulled in all directions and not sure what to do with themselves half the time. They are starting to mature and experience new emotions like having their first crush or first heartbreak. One other thing that teenage girls also do is form a small group of friends called a clique. Rosalind Wiseman wrote an essay called “The Queen Bee and Her Court.” In this essay she gives a general breakdown of the different positions that girls have in these cliques. Wiseman says: “Cliques are sophisticated, complex, and multilayered and every girl has a role within them.” It is almost like a small committee or club: there is a leader, a second in command, and so on. In Wiseman’s essay she lists the pros and cons of each position in the clique. She starts with the leader who she refers to as “The Queen Bee.” The leader likes to be in control at all times, thrives on being popular, likes to be the center of attention, and is used to getting her way. By having this position she feels power and control over her environment. She stays busy trying to maintain her image and is very cynical about friendships with both boys and girls. However, she doesn’t feel like she can admit to anyone when she is overwhelmed because her reputation dictates that she always has to have everything and everyone under control. Any evidence of being in over her head would ruin it. The girl second in command to the leader Wiseman calls “The Sidekick.” She is the leader’s best friend and will back her up no matter what the cost because whatever power she has depends on the leader’s confidence in her. The leader becomes more of an authority figure than the sidekick’s parents are. She

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