People will often ask what makes a good or long lasting relationship. In truth there is no one answer, what works for some will not work for others, it’s about finding the balance that suits the both people. At the beginning of a new relationship, the excitement of being in that relationship helps us to not see the things the other person does which may cause annoyance. At this stage in the relationship both parties find themselves faced with everyday realities which means they have to work at the relationship to find and maintain a balance. When couples are faced with life changing events or illnesses the balance changes quickly and they will find themselves in the difficult position of facing their own feelings and fears while trying to support each other.
You get rushed and preoccupied, and you stop taking the perspective of the other person, precisely because the two of you are so close.” Being rushed and not going in depth in conversations and only making short statements is a key in miscommunication. “Communication is complex; it requires a number of skills and both ongoing learning and practice to improve our skills. Misunderstandings occur frequently, and they can cause problems in relationships.” (Sole, 2011). Having my husband not understand what I mean by such a short statement is something that I expect since he is my husband. Yet I would not expect someone that isn’t as close to me to immediately grasp what it is I am trying to get across.
In life, people have made so many different choices, whether it is good or bad. If they wake up everyday with confidence and good thoughts, most of the time they will end the way happily. However, if they choose to wake up thinking about negative stuffs and being depressed, most likely they will not have a good day. Choices help people in all aspects of life especially with important decisions like
“Belonging can distort ones identity” It is a natural human need to want to belong, we all want to have a place where we belong, where we feel needed and feel important. But by belonging to a group or a society our identity might change or be sacrificed in order to conform and fit in. Most people don’t want to be labelled as an “outsider’ therefore extreme lengths may be taken to avoid this, an individual may change their opinions, beliefs, morals, appearance or even go as far as ignoring a major part of their identity, such as their ethnicity or sexuality just to feel a sense of “belonging”. Some people may not be consciously aware that they have changed their identity, while others may willing do so. Individuals may believe that changing themselves is for the better, while others feel they have to because of the amount of peer pressure they may feel from others or a society.
This is so that these barriers do not put a strain on the partnership and relationship parents and practitioners have. Barriers can lead to the parents becoming more emotional such as anger or show distress about it. Leading onto more prejudice attitudes and having different expectations on rules. It can all spiral out of control if not stopped, which not the help the child would reach their full potential as the child is the main focus, as their wellbeing is one of the most crucial part (paramount) while in the setting. Barriers come in many forms, such as when key persons are doing observations and planning.
We care mostly because we’re scared. We’re worried about how others will perceive us. This constant worrying lowers our self-confidence. We are so concerned about others’ opinions of us that sometimes we lose ourselves in the process. We’ll act how we expect other people to act, and in doing so we aren’t true to ourselves.
It is important to use the correct approach with a client because you need the client to fully engage in what you are saying. This is because if you are using the wrong approach they may find it difficult to concentrate. For example, the permissive approach uses a lot of imagery. If you have a client who is more suited to the Authoritarian approach they may struggle to embrace the imagery and therefore would not be able to engage fully with the
I was scared with what we could do myself, but I have a way we could make people not as scared. We could educate them, and if they still don’t like it, then they have a real reason not to like it than not knowing about
Is changing the way you look or act in order to fit in with a certain social group ever a good idea? What might be some benefits and/or drawbacks to doing so?” Some have said that changing your personality, look or act to fit certain group is a bad idea; however, I say we all have different personality or habits and it’s very hard to change other people change other people so I would say people should change or adjust their personality to fit certain group because the person can be socialized and nothing wrong to change and be a better person. Human is a very complicated creature, and because we all have different personality, it makes us more complicated to understand or fit each other’s. Every person with have certain way to conduct others and because of that, a person must be socialized and do not isolated himself with the rest of world else he/she will modernize as everyone else. Many times I see people in school or work that some people cannot hangout with others is either they are stubborn or the group do not want to let the guy in their group because he is so persistent.
There are many ways that we can affect our personality depends on who influence your life or identity. This is real important to people, even more important to young generation who just started to build their lives. Their personalities are immature, so it is important to who should they looking as a “role model”. If a person who really do not get along with their family, they might feel lonely and felt that he or she would not get enough love or attention from their parents, then that person’s personality could fact by their parents. So they might be coward, not confident about what they are doing, and maybe they do not know how to give the love or love the things.