Sexuality in Therapeutic Space

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A look at sexuality in the therapeutic space. “Our sexuality is a vital source of energy, which has no necessary connection with sexual activity. It is a well spring in each of us, a spiritual and emotional resource within our bodies” ( A.Dickinson.1985: 118) Introduction This essay will endeavour to demystify sexuality, exhibit that’s it’s not all about sexual desire or sexual acts, that there are multiple entwined and dependant parts and layers at play. The essay will attempt to display this interrelatedness and illustrate how it encroaches on the very core of our existence. Whether it is in our relationships, though, love, intimacy, sensuality. Or through Sexual identity, relationships, or sexual union, Sexuality spreads its roots penetrating deep within our being. Sexuality” extends far beyond the genitals, and sexual energy spreads throughout our bodies and throughout our lives” (A.Dickinson.1985:119). The essay will take a look at the effects of sexuality from both the perspective of the client and also the therapist. Endeavouring to unpack and understand the significance of sexuality in the therapeutic space. Firstly a simple metaphor to view our sexuality is to think of sexuality been like a map with which to negotiate the terrain of life, if our map is true and accurate we will have a sense of our identity and where we are going. If our map is false, and inaccurate we are usually lost in the abyss of superficiality or self-repression. The primary thought when one thinks of sexuality is either sexual orientation or sexual expression, needs, likes and dislikes, it is out of these seeds grows our sexual identity. “Our sexual identity and behaviour is a core expression of who we are. “( P.Carnes.1997:12). Therefore our sense of self is intrinsically linked to our sexual self. It is with this in mind we can see then “sex is fundamental to our lives and it
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