Gaita uses personification in “his materials…seemed to be in friendship with him” to reinforce the bond that exists between Romulus and his work, therefore highlighting the significance of such connection on the evolvement of his “character”. To Romulus, work has a spiritual dimension and the local community immensely appreciates the standard of the work he produces. The need to belong is paramount, and an example of this is Romulus being willing to work in a reception centre and take on menial tasks in order to be a part of the community. Romulus succeeds in conforming to the views and expectations of the society he resides in, which therefore grants him the acceptance and membership of this unit. Through his apparent work ethics and desire to attain respect, Romulus is a pure example of this notion.
Without relationships who would we be, what would we do and where would we belong? Relationships eminently seem to be the foundation of belonging, whether it is in a family, friendship, romance or otherwise. Relationships are able to enrich our identity and sense of belonging which can therefore lead to acceptance and understanding. Consequently, belonging can also have the ability to have negative repercussions for individuals involved in these relationships. ‘The Sandwich Generation’ by Julie Winokur and Ed Kashi as well as ‘Feliks Skrzynecki’ by Peter Skrzynecki both outline the understanding of belonging and what it means for those involved in the relationships.
Internal motivators within this need can include accomplishments and self-respect (Wood, 2010), internal motivators are motivators that are found within our own person in order to aid in achieving goals for ourselves. The second types of motivator within this need in known as external motivators, these types of motivators are motivation that come from individuals and situations that are outside sources such as family, co-workers, and friends. The external motivators within this need include “recognition, Attention, and social status” (Wood, 2010, p 12). The external motivators help individuals to feel good about themselves but obtaining recognition for a job well done, or even getting a better job to be included in a social status that is higher. Belonging Needs The third need that is
‘Digging’ is very much like ‘Follower’, in the sense that it shows how the young Heaney looked up to his elders - in this case both father and grandfather. Seeing his father (now old) “straining” to dig “flowerbeds”, the poet recalls him in his prime, digging “potato drills”. And even earlier, he remembers his grandfather, digging peat. He cannot match “men like them” with a spade, but he sees that the pen is (for him) mightier, and with it he will dig into his past and celebrate them. Heaney challenges the stereotype of ‘Paddy with a spade.’ The stereotype contains some truth - Irishmen are justifiably well known for
External Forces are important to a sense of belonging. Perceptions and ideas of belonging, vary. Perceptions are shaped within our personal, cultural and social context. A sense of belonging can be shaped from some external forces such as connections made with people, places, groups or communities. Examples of these connections that impact on our sense of belonging are show through the texts, “Romulus My Father” and “The Lame Shall Enter First”.
Belonging is a basic human need. A sense of belonging is usually founded in family. A healthy sense of belonging leads to self confidence and the expression of individuality. In order to belong a person needs acceptance and this can come from shared beliefs and experiences. Belonging may result in a deep connection to place.
Personal Values & Ethical Standards paper Cassandra Rodgers Personal Values & Ethical Standards paper Dr. Audra Stinson BSHS 332 A value is what a person believes in or a meaningful way of life for someone. Values will always come about whether one is aware of them or not each one of us has a set of personal values. Values can began from very common places like the concern for other individuals to work hard at what they are doing. In order to live a productive and happy life one must contain his or her personalized values. Creating personal values helps build personality and self-esteem.
Belonging and being accepted into a group can have both negative and positive effects on an individual’s sense of personal identity. As humans we naturally want to belong and feel accepted. We are usually brought up in a specific way and mingle with people that are similar to us and without knowing we form an invisible bond with these people. Whether it may be religious views, cultural similarities or similar up bringing all these factors help us to become the person we are. Lars Fr.
Identity is defined as “the distinct personality of an individual regarded as a persisting entity; individuality”. It is a vital factor that plays an essential part in our lives as it provides for us a sense of uniqueness and the ability to identify ourselves with others. Humans, being sociable creatures by nature, identify themselves through their relationship with friends, family, colleagues and other social groups; these interactions deliver a sense of privilege and belonging especially within one’s own family. As this is an ever changing phenomenon, many challenges are faced on the path of finding our true identity and the place we truly belong. These issues are explored profoundly in texts; Looking for Alibrandi, and Night, in which the characters face many complex and emotional events that question whether they truly belong to and can they identify themselves as being a part of their immediate families.
Describe how personal and societal values can influence ethical decision making. Rassin wrote “Values lie at the core of the diverse world of human behavior and are expressed in every human decision and action.” Personal values give our lives meaning, they are how and why we react in certain ways, and allow us to have faith in ourselves. We learn these from our infancy throughout our lives, as we grow and learn our values can change based on what is important to us. Values are what we see as right versus wrong, good versus evil, important versus unimportant. Societal values are values and abilities that contribute to moral character, and give us a sense of community.