Personal Resilence Essay

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DEFINITION Resilience is evident when we are confronted with significant trauma and stress. It’s hard to assess resilience when things are going well, although good times may increase it. It’s easier to measure it when we experience things we wish hadn’t happened. Resilience determines how quickly we get back to our "steady state" after the air has been knocked out of us, when we must push through life circumstances that challenge our very being. In other words Personal resilience is our ability to recover from setbacks, to embrace change and to soften, rather than fight, in the face of hardship. I would suggest that it can be viewed as a kind of sustainable, robust form of self-esteem. ATTRIBUTES OF PERSONAL RESILLENCE:- There are three core psychological attributes at the heart of resilience: strength, meaning/purpose, and pleasure. If your personal life is characterized by these traits, you have the core components needed to build resilience. You feel equipped to handle both daily life and those challenging moments when you have to dig deeper. You also believe that you’re contributing to the world in a way that helps others, consistent with what seems most important to you. Whether you believe that you exist in a universe controlled by a clearly defined higher power, or participate in the human collective that transcends your personal identity, your source of meaning helps you manage high stress and trauma effectively. And finally, pleasure strength, meaning and pleasure. These core attributes must be experienced on both an emotional and cognitive level. Resilience grows from both feelings and engagement in a thought life, bringing you strength, meaning and pleasure. Reading, thinking, working, praying, writing, conversing – these are just as important as emotional experiences that give you the feelings of strength, meaning and pleasure. The “Big
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