Never Marry a Mexican

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Never Marry a Mexican (Sandra Cisneros) In “ Never Marry a Mexican” the narrator Clemencia does not want to get marry because of men’s’ infidelities and the hardships her mother experiences in her life married to a Mexican man. Clemencia believes all men cheat and either she is going to be the one getting cheated on or she is the one that’s going to make a man cheat. In the passage she states, “I’ve witnessed their infidelities and I’ve helped them to it”(Cisneros 179). She knows she has caused pain to woman and calls herself vindictive and cruel. Even though the narrator refuses to find love inside her race, she is battling between being a crazy, psycho whore and looking for love with men that are already taken or married. Clemencia’s mother mold’s her daughter to make her racist towards many different ethnic groups of men that wasn’t white. Her mother makes her fell she needs a white male in order to live a happy life in America. In the story she states, “Mexican men, forget it. For a long time the men clearing off the tables or chopping meat behind the butcher counter or driving the bus I rode to school every day, those weren’t men.” (Cisneros 179) The narrator looks down to men who doesn’t have a white-collar job or who isn’t white. She goes on the name many ethic groups that she wouldn’t marry and doesn’t care how anybody else feels about the decision. She doesn’t want a man like her father and that’s causes her to not know what to look for in a man beside his skin color. She takes her mother advice about not sleeping with Mexican men; instead she sleeps with married white men. Therefore, she plays the mistress-role, which causes her not to trust men. With Clemencia being unsure about love, she also seems to be unsure about her love for her father. In the beginning, her mother told her to never marry a Mexican, because of her father which makes her
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