Never Good At Saying Goodbye

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It is amazing how many things we take for granted. We make plans for the day, and don't think twice about how those plans can be taken away in the blink of an eye. I never thought much about it myself, until I was faced with the shock, and undeniable truth of my grandmother's death. I don't think anyone really thinks about tragedy until they are actually faced with shocking news. I was only 11, but remember it like yesterday .I had gotten off the bus from school at my neighbors house that day waiting to be driven to hockey practice. Usually my mother would come and pick me up as I got off the bus but on this particular day she wasn’t there. My neighbor had said to me “Your mom is at the hospital your grandmother isn’t doing well”. These words had given me a sinking feeling throughout my entire body; it had hit me as hard as nails. I was scared that the thought of death may come as a reality. I had known my grandmother had been in the hospital for knee and hip surgery, but that had gone “wrong” and her knee became infected and the infection had spread. She stayed in K.G.H for about 4 months. The next thing I remember it was 5 o’clock at night, and saying to myself,”so much for hockey.” I was told by my neighbor I would be staying there for a “while”. We had dinner and afterwards I tried to keep this topic off of my mind, but I couldn’t tolerate it. My mom had finally come to pick me up. We arrived home and she told us the horrible news, “she has passed on”. I started to cry. Death should not cause us to live in fear, but rather to live our lives in the very best way that we can. If we are to live life honestly and without fear, we have to also accept that death is ultimately inevitable. My mom and dad always tell me to live my life to the fullest because you never know when it may be your last and, I intend to do

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