The short story called, "The Most Powerful Question a Parent Can Ask..." by 'Neil Millar' shows the most respectful approach of parents to their children rather than "Be-ers and Doers" by 'Budge Wilson' in many ways. I feel that the story by "Neil Millar" is told in a calmer manner of speaking rather than the one written by "Budge Wilson". Everyone grows up differently but the effects grow depending on the matter of time when you are taught to become responsible. Every parent teaches their child different aspects at different times. Some are earlier than others and some must be later.
Nobody can take away your level of effort. Another core belief that I have is to always look at the best in things no matter what. This belief helps a ton when you think that things aren't going your way. I got this belief from my parents also. My parents really believed in shaping me into a good person when i was younger.
Unfortunately, I’ve learned the hard way that sadly not all people are good. I tend to face myself against reality when I don’t want to see the negative in situations. Which is why I have set making good friends as one of my goals. I believe that a friend should never hold you back from your dreams and instead they should be there to help and guide you through the bad, the good, and the ugly. They should be a support system and be there for you as much as you would be there for them and it’s always nice to have good influences as you grow into adulthood.
I have taught my children the importance of sharing and to always help each other out. I don’t want them to be greedy with their belongings as they grow up. I also have taught them to never be mean or talk rudely to anyone because it’s impolite. My family also knows the difference between right and wrong because if they didn’t they would grow up thinking everything they did was ok to do. I want them to know when it is ok to do something and when it’s wrong to do something because if it’s good you will always be rewarded and if it’s bad then something terrible may happen.
Cultural deprivation means when children are deprived from things what they need. This can include the lack of values and support they get from their parents, which can influence on socialisation skills. It can be argued that due to lack of family structure, social cultural and soft skills pupils are less likely to underachieve. Cultural deprivation is a theory that many working-class children are inadequately socialised and therefore lack the ‘right’ culture appropriate for a successful education. Many people argue that development is vital in the younger years in the child’s life, and the ability to solve problems and apply ideas help in the long-term.
All you know is you and your needs. He says that as we grow older we are taught to tailor some of our actions to minimize their negative effects on others, as long as our needs are still being met. Lee describes that as the root of selfishness. When he answers the question to the title of the article of whether we’re born good or evil he says, “It’s neither, we are born selfish”. This article provides interesting incite and examples for how humans are born
Certain cultures value education and success on a whole other level than others and it’s not that each ethnicity is better or worse, it’s the simple fact they were raised on and brought up around different values and expectations in their own culture. Creating again another subconscious segregation issue mentally within certain ethnicities resulting in a mentality that race superiority is okay and acceptable, when in all actuality, may give a little truth to how demographics influence a major part in the education of an individual, which after contributing to this mentality creates a domino like effect on the people who may not have been as fortunate as them but worked just as hard if not harder to get to the same spot. For a country who is typically associated with an image that represents harmony when looking at America itself we haven’t shown much of that over the years, and dissecting each battle America has with racial superiority in each region of the U.S. is proof to exactly why this myth is one to begin with, in all
On the one hand, it is an endorsement of the power and necessity of the parental role and brings with it not only responsibility but the possibility of contributing to the well-being of family, community, and society. On the other hand, the obligation for shaping the malleable stuff of childhood into a virtuous, competent adult figure is, at the least, a daunting prospect. And should one’s child begin to show signs of faltering, rebelliousness, failure, or any number of other human frailties, parents are apt (and their neighbors, too) to blame
Though these motivators may be effective, they will not make you a focused student. Another answer to the aforementioned questions could be “I am fascinated with the subject” or “I’m unfamiliar with the subject and I like the challenge it will provide!” Fascination and challenge, along with curiosity and mastery, are a few intrinsic motivators that drive a focused student! Though it is nice and even necessary to please your parents, get good pay, and fulfill your credit requirement – these factors do not instill any drive to become truly educated. Having a genuine love for education and learning defines a focused student and is the best and most inspiring motivator there is! Another quality possessed by a focused student is having a generally positive attitude.
Therefore, if our family places a great deal of emphasis on education and its importance, we focus on getting good grades more than we focus on our athletic or artistic abilities, and may include intelligent as an attribute when describing ourselves to other people. Our self-concept would probably be focused on studious tendencies and smarts. When we don’t excel in the area of education, we may try to hide our grades and avoid talking about schooling with others because we feel bad about this. This would create low self-esteem. On the other hand, if our parents and siblings tell us that grades don’t matter as long as we try our very best, we may not have any problems telling others we failed a test when we studied for hours preparing for it.