Mask Of Masculinity

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Joey Mespelli Mr. Cohen Sociology 12 26 February 2012 "Mask of Masculinity" The documentary Raising Cain has a lot of good information on the struggles of growing up now a days as a boy. The film brings up the struggle of boys in school and also how boys hide their emotions. Throughout the film they crew goes to different areas of Massachusetts is shows the different problems that the boys of that area face in and out of school. Everywhere the crew went there was a numerous amount of boys holding in their true feelings in order not show weakness to the other boys that they are around. Growing up as a boy now a day's boys feel that they need to hide their feelings of hurt, shame, and weaknesses. Psychologists refer to the this as a "Mask of Masculinity". Also, they say that the only feelings that society allows a boy to express are those of anger and frustration. I agree with this assumption because of the examples shown in the film and also examples in my own life. To me the only time when a boy shows the weaker feelings is when they are by themselves and there is no other boys around them. An example of this was the Pop Warner football practice involving the small boys. The coaches are very hard on the boys and do not want them to play like a "girl", they want them to vicious and violent and hurt their opponent. With the boys being so young and having a coach saying that to them they feel that they have to always have a lot of aggression and anger for other boys not to make fun of them. When the boys got on camera most of them said that they play football to hit other kids and hurt them. That shows the role that adults can have with young boys and their mindsets. An example of boys showing anger and at the same time being sad but only expressing that when they are on their own when there are no other boys around is Hugo. Hugo lives a very tough

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