Lost Friend Essay

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Life’s Lessons Last year I lost a very close friend, John, to a car accident. He was driving home from a friend’s house around 3 in the morning. When I had first heard the news I was in shock, I couldn’t and didn’t believe anyone. I would soon come to accept this tragedy when I went to visit the spot where he had crashed. It was a tree, right on a bend that you could never see in the darkness of the night. I could see the glass from his driver’s side door embedded into the tree. Pieces of metal were scattered on the ground and I had found a piece of his rearview mirror that I kept. This all brought me to reality. March 31 2012 would be the biggest life changing event I had ever experienced. This day taught me to never go to sleep angry. I learned that nobody is invincible and that I can’t do things that could potentially be harmful to me or others. But most importantly I had learned that I must love my parents, girlfriend, and brothers, and friends. I will never go to bed angry again after this day. When I got over grieving about the loss of John, I had learned that his best friend from his childhood had gotten into an argument with him and said some really hurtful and regretful things. After recently talking with his friend I could still tell that he’s regretting not getting to apologize and he is a total mess. This put things into perspective for me because I have four younger brothers and we’re always getting into Versaci2 fights but we always apologize in the end. On the other hand when I get into an argument with my parents and I try to say words that I don’t want to wind up regretting, which wasn’t always the case with me. I sometimes would tell my parents I hated them and that I wished they were dead, but not anymore, I can’t imagine living with that for the rest of my life if (God forbid) something were to happen. Furthermore, I have learned that no
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