Joy Luck Club

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Raekeem Bellamy 1/9/11 Block C Joy Luck Club Response "Why do you have to use me to show off? If you want to show off, then why don't you learn to play "Why do you have to use me to show off? If you want to show off, then why don't you learn to play chess? “Chess? “The mother – daughter relationship from my stories in the “Joy Luck Club” could be described as a cultural difference between the two. Throughout story there are many times when Waverly Jong’s mother, Lindo, beliefs and intentions were not taken as she wanted by Waverly Jong. For example Waverly’s mother brags about how good her daughter is at chess and even carries a magazine around of Waverly with her. To Lindo, this is showing Waverly that she is proud of her and loves her very much, however this bothers Waverly and she is embarrassed. "It’s just so embarrassing...Why do you have to use me to show off? If you want to show off, then why don't you learn to play chess?"(101). This shows that Waverly doesn’t like that her mother tells everybody about her, because of the cultural difference they both have different ways of showing love for one another. Another cultural difference is shown when Waverly and Rich, Waverly’s fiancé are having dinner at Lindo’s. Rich seems to think the dinner went well, however Lindo thinks the exact opposite. Rich doesn’t understand Chinese table manners, “He had brought a bottle of French wine, something he did not know my parents could not appreciate...then he helped himself to big portions of the shrimp and snow peas, not realizing he should have taken only a polite spoonful, until everybody had had a morsel.”(196-197). In the Chinese culture all of these things are considered rude and impolite, but in American culture it’s the opposite. The night only gets worse when Rich unknowingly criticized Lindo’s cooking. Because of Waverly’s background she understood how Rich

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