Irresponsible Parents Create Irresponsible People in Our Community

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So its fifteen years down the track………. Most of us will be in the working world. Hannah is dominating the corporate world while her husband is a stay at home Dad to their son and daughter. Don is in the army, and comes home to a curly headed little girl who grabs hold of his leg as soon as he opens the door. Sam is teaching his son to be as cool as him, polishing his SS Ute. The truth is most of us will be responsible to someone who will be dependent on our care and guidance, but I have every faith that every one of us will endeavour to be responsible parents, because of our parents, our role models. But what about the kid who is never pulled up for his actions, or the kid who has had everything handed to him on a silver platter? Irresponsibility is not just alcoholism or pure carelessness; it is everything from cotton-wool parenting to abuse. Irresponsible parents are not qualified to raise young, impressionable children, who model their every action on what they see at home. Irresponsible parents create irresponsible people! Irresponsible parenting is not providing a sensible role model! Anyone could be a role model, but to be a positive one takes a lot more than just existing! Take the cannabis addicted 14-year-old, the ‘Bali Boy’. His father said “I would hate to be the next ‘Bali Boy’ because I don’t think they’ll deal with the next poor bugger the same way.” How is not acknowledging your son’s cannabis addiction going to help him, Dad? How do you think blaming Indonesian laws for punishing drug crimes is being a good role model? It’s like blaming a policeman for fining you for doing 30 kms over the speed limit! It is essentially teaching this young impressionable boy that it’s never his fault, he can’t ever do anything wrong. Kids with these sought of role models are essentially going to be the kids with drug problems, with a criminal record. They’ll be the
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