Interpersonal Communications Intercultural Essay

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Abstract: The following essay is based on my personal observations and interactive communication with an American neighbor born in the Philippines. These observations reflect that as an American citizen, many of the cultural values, customs, and beliefs of her homeland continue to be an integral part of her present lifestyle. Keywords: communication, values, customs My intercultural experience took place in my small Indiana hometown, just a few blocks from where I now reside. America is culturally diverse, making it easy to experience various cultures without regard to your location. This cultural experience began with a visit to a former neighbor born in the Philippines. Mrs. A., as I will refer to her, is an American citizen in a cross-cultural marriage, and has been living in the United States for over thirty years. Mrs. A. speaks fluent English with the prevailing accent of her native language. She acknowledged the fact that she was taught both the English language, and her native Filipino language in her birth country before arriving in the U.S. Mrs. A. is rather soft-spoken, without the tendency to raise her voice. She exhibits strong body-language and hand gestures while conversing. She indicated that in her culture, pointing at someone, or even something, is perceived as an insulting gesture. It is therefore more appropriate to gesture toward an object with an open hand. To beckon someone, you are to hold your hand with your palm downward and make a scratching motion. In the Philippines putting your hands on your hips is seen as a confrontational “challenge.” (Philippines-Cultural Ettiquette, 2014) My initial impression clearly indicated that she is an enthusiastic conversationalist. She is also casual, friendly, and outgoing. She enjoys talking, and is not at all hesitant to discuss most any topic in depth. Women in the Philippines occupy a

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