How We Treat Our Children

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As we know, children are our hope in the future of each country. However, Do they have a good care and training? It’s depend on their parents, school,... The way that we choose to teach them things is very important. In my opinion, “spare the rod” is the good one, but “spoil the child” isn’t good. First, it’s about “spare the rod”. In some families, when a child makes some mistakes or can’t understand things quickly, parents usually spank or hit them. This is a negative acttion, because children like a white paper, they’re very tender. So, they don’t have any notion or knowledge. We hit them, they will scare right away. But if this action repeats again and again, they will not scare us anymore and it’s really hard to teach them at that time. Just imagine that a child lives in a family but he/she does not have any love. They are spanked, hited and abused by their parents. The only result is clear. A child like that will become a violent person or will be suffer from autism ( don’t want to communicate with other). On the other hand, u can have many ways else to punish them like: don’t allow them to watch TV in 1 week, no computer games ,... We should “spare the rod” to make them scare and have a good development. In Viet Nam, I have witnessed many cases like: parents have a lot of things to do, so they don’t care much about their child. And when these child have mistakes, they will hit them strongly. I remembered : When I was at grade 7, my neighbouring have a son. He was very lovely and bright. His father stayed at home and his mother worked in a old factory. They did not have any knowledge about teaching kids. They always hitted this boy. 1 year ago, when I came back there, I couldn’t recognize him. He had become taciturn. It’s the consequence of violent act. Second, it will be about “spoil a child”. Maybe spoiling them is right but it must have a limit.
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