After reading this article I see that no matter how long you know someone or how close you are to them the communication needs to be clear. This doesn’t mean just saying to someone that you are upset but giving them the chance to understand completely and explain why and what made you upset. Starting a new relationship with someone you give them details and allow them to get to know you and they do the same. The closer you get to a person does not mean they no longer deserve the benefit of you opening up and fully communicating with
Often we react quickly to emotionally charged words or subjects. Internally we think of ways to respond to the speaker and argue our position. In this process we often quit listening to what is being said. We make judgments and respond to those judgments as if the speaker’s position were accurately known to us. Criticisms from supervisors and peers often are met with emotional listening resistance.
Aside from the class content I learned that I don’t wait for things to happen I went into this telling my group that under no circumstance could I lead this project but I found myself incapable of waiting for things to evolve on their own, I have more of a leader personality than I thought. How did the interpersonal dynamics affect your participation? If there were conflicts, how were they resolved? I am not shy and I was able to communicated with team members well, we had fun most of the time. Unfortunately we did not have a good dynamic with at least 1 team member which cause a quite a bit of delay and frustration, but we were able to side step this for the most part and push on with the objectives.
Some carers may not feel they can approach the person because the assume they are violent. If a person gets violent it is due to frustration and not being able to express themselves. It helps if you know how to approach the person so they dont get adjitated. You should always try to form positive relationships with clients even though they may not remember you a short time later. Some people just think a person dementia does not need to be spoken to bacause they may not be able to understand anyway.
I do not talk about it to every person I know because that would confuse me even more. When I am angry or if someone does something which offends me I do not burst out in anger immediately. This is because I believe that this could completely ruin a relationship. I think very carefully before saying something because I believe that words could be interpreted in different ways. I am very open to other’s opinions
Telling the truth to somebody, a person, a group, co-workers or anybody can backfire in the persons face. A lot of people say they want to hear the truth but not everybody can handle the truth. This affects the people actually speaking the truth, there so nervous to tell it that when it does come out they hope for good reactions and a positive outlook. The last thing the person wants is to be bashed by the person, a lot people think that the person it effects is hurting the most but actually the person telling the truth goes through more. They go through the feeling of “why did I say it?” and they shouldn’t feel like that, they should be happy that they don’t have to lie or cover anything up anymore.
One of my good friends seems to be fond of the idea of arguing. It had seemed like every single time I would voice an opinion on a situation or idea, she had to think or feel the complete opposite of my statement. Most of the time I thought it was just on purpose, and it didn’t make me want to argue back. All it made me want to do was drop the subject. If she had had more specific reason as to why she disagreed with me, maybe it wouldn’t have turned me away as quickly and easily.
The way u has a counselling and client bond will change and not become professional. If a client invited me to any special occasions or anything out of the counselling sessions. I would thank them but explain that you have to stick to the codes of practice and I wouldn’t be allowed to go. I would make it clear that as a counsellor who is professional that I am very happy that they feel comfortable and close to me that they would ask me but our friendship only can stay in this room due to confidentiality for the
The Price of Education One thing that many people do not think about when choosing to acquire an education is the effect it may have on their relationships with friends and family. For some, there may be no change in the family dynamic, but others may feel the need to distance themselves from their families if they deem their family intellectually inferior or a hindrance to their goals of academic success. Richard Rodriguez took the approach that it was indeed necessary to isolate himself from his family in order to attain his educational goals. Bell hooks takes a completely opposite approach to her education. She feels it necessary to maintain a strong grasp of her roots and a strong relationship with her family.
With our interpersonal attractions to each other we grew from being acquaintances to a couple. Conversation 3: barriers of listening (faking attention) When my friend Lauren talks I tend to use one of the barriers of listening most often; faking attention. We have conversations daily but, I sometimes act like I’m paying attention to her but really my mind is on something else. I do this because the stuff she is saying is worthless of me hearing and does not affect me or my life in any way possible.