Daily Dilemma Essay

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Daily Dilemma By: Dana Evans The obstacle I struggle with daily is staying positive; this is complicated by allowing other people to negatively affect my life. My life is full of other people’s problems. Everyone seems to find me when something has gone wrong or they have an issue they need help with. I am the problem solver for almost everyone in my life; whether it’s my family or my friends. Currently I spend a good portion of my days solving problems for other person; which does not leave a lot time for me. I understand most humans want to have close friendships and relationships with loved ones, however not everyone is meant to stay in our life forever. Some people are only meant to be in our life for a short time, whether if it’s for you to learn something from them or vice-a- versa. Although some people are easier to remove from your life then others it’s never anything I really want to do. The mistake I attend to make most often is; not knowing when to let someone go. First thing I must do is ask myself, “How many positive and negative friends do I have?” If I answered this question honestly I would have to say, I have more negative people in my life right now. The next thing I need to do is decide which 5 people I spend the most time and ask myself how many of these people are, healthy, successful and happy. The best way I believe to do this is to keep a daily journal document the nature of conversions, issues and situations with friends, co-workers and family members. Ask yourself these questions, do you often hear about your friends or family members misfortunes? , do they often blame others for their troubles and misfortunes? Do they avoid being responsible? If the answer is yes to these questions then these people more than likely are having a negative effect on your life. I will than need evaluate the information in my daily journal, which
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