“The actualising tendency refers to the tendency in all forms of organic life towards more complex organisation, the fulfilment of potential, and in human beings, the actualisation of the whole person including the persons self” (Merry 2002). Through my own experience I believe there is a need for positive self regard in order for an individual to make positive choices and trust in their own decisions.”To develop a sense of trust in the accuracy and reliability of our own inner experiencing” (Merry 2002). Again through personal experiences I understand the effect of the conditions of worth have on individuals. I believe that these affect us later in life and can be explored
Because he was blind to the prophecy, he blinds himself to remember everything he had done. His fate would have been execution, but by punishing himself, he makes other believe that he is punished. In addition to Oedipus avoiding his fate he is a coward in terms of his actions. He tells Creon to exile him far away because he is too afraid to deal with all that has happed. When he says “Drive me out of this country as quickly as may be to a place where no human voice can ever greet me.” (Ln.
First, in describing autonomy/connection it is the ways that people desire for personal identity and space but also have a longing to be together and to belong to another person. Next, the novelty/predictability dynamic infers that we want for new and exciting things within our relationships yet we also wish to keep a routine and predictable relationship. Finally, the dynamic of openness/closedness describes the struggle in relationships for our desire to share different parts of our lives with others but also wanting to keep certain parts of our lives separate and private. Mattingly, Oswald, and Clark (2001) studied the importance of understanding why some people are more effective at maintaining relationships and how important that understanding is in helping people who are struggling with interpersonal issues. Their research included integrating individual differences such as relational-interdependent self-construal (RISC) and communal orientation and how this integration can benefit the relationship process.
How might you work to change this? * The step in communication process that I consider the most important is the context in which the message is being communicated. I believe this because it would depend on the
HSC 3029 1. Understand specific communication needs and factors affecting them. 1.1 Explain the importance of meeting an individual’s communication needs. Communication is a fundamental human right (human right 1998 – freedom of expression), if we do not meet the communication needs of others we can be denying them of their rights. The GSCC code of practice shows how an individual right can be affected if communication needs are not met.
Curley has obviously decided it is not worth fighting him but before he leaves he instructs Lennie as he still wants to intimidate him and show him that he has an authoritive figure. In this extract Curley has clearly unnerved Lennie as Lennie constantly seems to be in some discomfort for example “Lennie squirmed under the look and shifted his feet nervously”. John Steinbeck does well to produce powerful imagery by simply using the word “squirmed”. This shows that Lennie is embarrassed and does not know what to do and this causes tension as Curley senses his advantage while George is worried about a possible confrontation. Another example is “Lennie twisted with embarrassment”.
Whether it be through personal resilience or groups with shared values and beliefs our attitude to conflict plays a significant role in shaping its outcome. Firstly. Through the attitude we deploy when encountering conflict, we are able to extract positive personal conclusions from prolonged adversities. We as individuals can only influence what we ourselves, become of. The Rugmaker of Mazar-e-Sharif supports this claim through
Cognitive restructuring techniques commonly center on producing a confident self-image, encouraging constructive social interactions, and removing thought deformations (mistakes in reasonableness or points of view). However, regardless of their shared goals, diverse approaches apply to some extent, different actions and ways to achieve their purpose (CTU Online, 2012, pg.1). The primary theory behind cognitive restructuring is that an individual’s reactions and conduct can be significantly influenced by something they believe. If an individual could intentionally alter the habit of what they say to themselves, and what depictions they portray to themselves, then they could render themselves more content or nicer or more constructive or could achieve one of numerous other beneficial adjustments; simply stated, that by correcting our way of reasoning, we can constructively change how we feel and how we take action (Strayhorn, 2003). The cognitive restructuring theory would facilitate Tom in learning to control his anger by learning how to change his way of thoughts, thus changing how he permits events to control his
When handled in an unhealthy manner, it can cause irreparable rifts, resentments, and break-ups. But when conflict is resolved in a healthy way, it increases our understanding of one another, builds trust, and strengthens our relationship bonds” (Conflict 101). While striving for resolution it is imperative to monitor stress levels and only proceed to rectify an escalated situation when cooler heads are present. Once an individual is no longer emotional he or she is closer to a rational state and his or her ability to listen attentively and comprehensively is at an optimal level. Also the individuals are usually capable of explaining what the conflict felt like and meant to them.
Spielberg in this textual medium demonstrates how choice sometimes outweighs and is of greater importance than the restrictive circumstances. This is analogous in Postcard where Skrzynecki accepts and understands that he needs to undergo struggle and be resilient, in order to form his cultural identity to belonging. This is demonstrated in his acceptance and ‘recognition of eyesight and praise’ as well as personal pronoun inclusion of ‘we will meet