Disadvantages of Cohabitation
The longer you stay together, chances are you might be comfortable with living with each other and avoid tying the knot altogether.
Cohabitating makes is easier for a partner to walk out of the relationship because after all, he or she is not obligated to you (legally). It encourages the easy exit for anyone who chooses to take it.
Cohabitations are usually short-lived
People who cohabitate are more likely to experience negative attitudes from their partners about marriage and child bearing and most are likely to see divorce as a solution to a troubled marriage.
Females who cohabitate are the ones who suffer the most loss during the break-up of the relationship. Women in their late twenties or early thirties have lost both time (biological ticking clock) and sometimes their dignity in the process of cohabitating with their partner.
It’s not such a good idea
Call it anything you want: cohabitation, living together, living in sin…it is a growing tendency. Unfortunately the consequences resulting from people living together without a married commitment are also growing.
Some would argue and cohabitation and marriage are the same. Here are some myths people believe in:
“We are only living together for the time being. When we feel we’re ready, we’ll get married.”
Only 30 percent of couples in a common law relationship eventually get married.
“We want to try out how we get along together. Our marriage would be more successful after living together for a short time.”
Statistics prove that the rate of marriage break ups among couples who lived together before marriage is 80% higher than couples who did not cohabit before marriage.
“When we get married, we’ll get along better”
35% of couples who cohabited before marriage have experienced physical violence in the first 12 months of marriage. This is more than double than those couples who did not cohabit before...