Saying that before my mother passed would get him nothing but grief from her, but that time has long faded from his memory. My mother loved this place, and she taught me to do the same. She always told me that I wouldn’t find a place like it in the world, and I never thought I would have to. The thing I will never forget is Aldridge Street. Aldridge Street was unnecessary, linking one side of Kent
I bought her a hot-water heater, and another one when it wore out…They were tiny things, inconsequential things. I did them because I was supposed to, because it was my turn to do things for her, and because I was trying to make up for any wrong I had ever done her.” (Bragg, pg. 151) His mother made many sacrifices for her boys when she was growing up, and Bragg was compassionate to his mother. He loved her so much and wanted her to live a comfortable life. This can strike a note with most readers, as most people feel attached to their mothers and would do anything to make them happy.
I was confused, terrified, upset, and depressed” (Duval). All she could think about was how impossible it would be to raise a child. Harley’s choices of having a baby would be changed if it was in her control. Abortion was never in her mind, adoption was a possibility; but when she saw the first ultrasound of her baby, her mind changed about the pregnancy situation. It was her mistake, so she is going to take on her responsibility, and be a great parent for her unborn child.
She continues to argue that as a result such difference presents inequality and has made genuine love between man and women doubtful. Genuine love in de Beauvoir’s recognition would be an equal relationship between man and woman comprising of “the mutual recognition of two liberties” in which “the lover would than experiences themselves both as self and as the other: neither would give up transcendence, neither would be mutilated; together they would manifest values and aims in the world” (De Beauvoir 1983, p. 677). In consideration to her statement she therefore believes that there exists a problem which is preventing the genuine love between man and woman, the problem of inequality. A woman she states is defined and differentiated in accordance to man and not he in reference to her (De Beauvoir 1983, p. 16). Thus a woman’s existence and recognition is dependent on a man’s acknowledgement.
There is even a brief nod to equity theory in this. Some of her peers are also parents but have chosen to hire nannies and continue to work full time. This gives them the advantage at work and creates feelings of inequity in Anna. Drive to Bond: Anna needs to develop the special bond of mother and daughter. Anna also wants to nurture the relationships she worked hard to create with her employer, co-workers and church group.
LOVE Nanny * She had all the love to support Janie, she didn’t like to see Janie sad and unhappy. * She wants to protect Janie from dating the wrong guys since she’s in her womanhood. * She wants a man that would treat Janie with respect and tell her about her love life. * She did her best on finding a man for Janie because she loves Janie and wants a man to treat her well. Logan * Janie didn’t really love Logan he treated her as if she was nothing by bossing her around all the time after he got sick of doing all the work.
To Janie a marriage is about a mutual and reciprocal fulfillment that should be filled with love. It seems that throughout the whole narrative, Janie is constantly looking for this type of ideal marriage and love and being at one with nature. In her marriage to Logan Killicks she hopes to find this ideal marriage, “She knew now that marriage did not make love. Janie’s first dream was dead, so she became a woman.”(24). Logan Killicks crushes Janie’s child dream and any hope she had for that perfect marriage and love, so with this new realization, Janie knows that she must become a woman and do away with her childish dreams.
Janie’s Undying Quest for Love All human hearts, at their core, desire love. What this love comes to mean can differ from person to person. How one is brought up can greatly influence their view on what true love is and, for some, leave them without happiness. In Zora Neale Hurston’s Their Eyes Were Watching God, Janie finds true love only when she lets go of what society is telling her to do. Although her Grandmother taught her that love is settling with a wealthy man, Janie does not give up on her vision of love.
The True State of Happiness Janie is a dreamer, her grandmother Nancy says, she lives her life trying to reach the horizon-- Janie’s very dear dreams. The society’s principles of how a woman should act, and its strict limits, prevent Janie from reaching the horizon; that one day seemed to be so close. The first two unfortunate marriages separate Janie from her dreams by limiting her strictly and blending her into the melting pot of society. Everyone in the pot is forced to follow the mass of others, thus living their lives without finding their individuality and discovering their life purpose and path. Janie’s first two husbands, Logan and Jody, never allow Janie to reach the desirable horizon.
Marie desperately craves a relationship of substance with Meursault, and proposes the idea of marriage. Meursault is again indifferent, claiming that “it didn’t really matter and that if she wanted to, we could get married” (41). Meursault is also expressionless regarding the concept of love. When responding to Marie’s inquiry, he claims that “it doesn’t mean anything but that I don’t think so” (41). He answers the question bluntly and without expression.