If at any point they failed, they would see this as a big mistake and give up and have a lack of motivation. It can also be argued that working class children do not get the support of their parents, this is because many of the parents believe that they survived without an education, so believe that there children can do the same. Working class families can also lack in support in terms of if the child fails a particular exam, they would not give them positive feed back on how they could improve they would improve. Whereas, it can be argued that higher class families have more motivation and the parents also give the support to the children that is needed. This would have a positive influence on the child’s education as it would give them hope and not give them an opportunity of giving up.
These reasons can range from repeating the cycle of their own fatherless childhoods, to low self-esteem, and the desire to start a new life with another woman who does not desire his baggage. Whatever the reason may be, the effects of not having another father leave a scar on a child for the remainder of his or her life. Children who grow up without a father or solid male figure in their life face many life impairing situations. Their psychological needs can’t be met on a personal or educational level. A study from Enzine Article shows that, “Children with a missing father are two times more likely to drop out of high school or obtain a higher education.” A college education can become problematic for a child without a father for two reasons.
Boy’s over confidence – There is an argument that boys are over-confident in their abilities, which may mean they prepare less for exams. Feminist may argue that this comes from the wider attitude of a patriarchal society (male dominated). So boys don’t put in the effort because there is an assume that as males they will be successful anyway. However, there is an argument that some boys have low self-esteem and do not believe that they will automatically do well just because their boys. Decline of traditional male jobs – The decline of traditional ‘men’s’ jobs (manual work), has lead some boys to think that they don’t have any prospects once they leave school, so give up trying to get any
Synthesis Essay 2 “The most powerful question a parent can ask” by Neil Millar and “Be-ers and Doers” by Budge Wilson are about making children demonstrate great accountability. Neil Millar talks about “what kind of children do (we) want to raise” whereas Budge talks about the difference between being and doing. Both of the passages represent that being parents is a very challenging job but “the most powerful question a parent can ask “ shows the more respectful approach of parents to their children. In some families values play an important role. “(These) values pass on mother-to-mother combine with the natural instincts to love, support and nurture.” If a person was raised spending most of the time on the things that were being bad influence for them such as wrestling or teen’s reality show or their parents were too busy working and did not have enough time to check if they were keeping up with the homework and reading.
Absent fathers can be the biggest social problem in the world. Raising children without a father can damage a child's perspective, making it difficult to adopt a masculine world. Fathers are the primary source who showed tough love,discipline, and encouraging success for their child.Due to the Absentee of father's guidance the development of a child is effected emotional, educational, and opportunity wise. I wonder if this pattern from men will ever change? In now days education is a big deal, and absent of fathers interaction effect female interest in academic advancement.
Family Dynamics (Comparative Essay) Parents raise their children to either live vicariously through them or want to have them follow their own path in life. The stories "The Charmer" by Budge Wilson and "Brother Dear" by Bernice Friesen, show both ways of parenting which influences the children to go against them. Both stories show that each set of parents display conflict with their children. Although one story focuses on how parenting is not hard enough and influences the children negatively, the other story displays how the parenting is too hard and it also affects the children negatively. Each story shows sibling rivalry because of the parenting style and there is sibling rivalry because the brothers in the stories get all the attention and
Every parent hopes their child will grow up to be successful, self reliant and respectful. In some instances such as in the short story "Be-ers and Doers" by Budge Wilson you can have a parent pushing you too far to become their idea of the “perfect child". However in the short story "The most powerful Question a Parent Can Ask..." by Neil Millar, the author shows us that there are more efficient ways of raising a child. “The most powerful Question a Parent Can Ask...” has a much more respectful approach when it comes to raising
Every child deserves to have a family. Orphanage dammage children Children growing up in orphanages- wether they be government or private ones do not get the care they need. Research proves that without individual care, attention and stimulation, children’s brains and neurological systems do not develop normally. They develop learning disabilities, they have growth delays and they struggle with the psychological trauma of losing their parents and the abuse that led to the horrible end. Children cannot raise themselves.
Children whose parents divorce will be more likely to be isolated and antisocial than sociable and integrate. If there is no contact with one of the parents, the child misses out on that parent’s knowledge and skills. This is a big loss to the child especially if the only parent in their life has a serious lack in parental
Almost every time child spend without father, just with their mother. Meanwhile at night time, father maybe too tired to spend time a little with children. This condition make children lost a father figure and make a damage to their mental, attitude, and behavior. So, a balance between father and mother are need for their children, without that children will lost their way. Another reason why both parents should assume equal responsibility in raising a child is because children need love.