Beauty Is in the Eye of the Beholder

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Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder? Attraction is defined as “arousing or compelling the interest, admiration, or attention of”. Explained in this way attraction appears to be simple. However, the opposite is quite true. What truly defines attraction has no rules, no definition, and no explanation. The way someone walks, talks, laughs, or smiles are all features that can attract or arouse interest from one person to another. Although, it is also true that one action can be extremely attractive to one person, while it has no effect whatsoever on the next. While it is not well understood why one particular thing attracts one person and not the next, it is very clear that attraction is a very important part of dating and picking partners. Many will say beauty is in the eye of the beholder and looks do not matter, but that is not always the case. It is much more important than anyone wants to admit and we all take it into intense consideration without even knowing it. It differs among people wildly and it also differs between genders. Men’s attraction and women’s attraction are two completely different subjects with some distinct variations. After surveying sixty 18-25 year olds, I found those out for myself. To get my results, I surveyed sixty of my peers. I asked eight multiple-choice questions and one open ended question to see what they thought about attraction, and what the differences were between the two genders. I found distinct differences in every aspect ranging from what they think upon initial meeting of the opposite sex, to what will attract them for long-term, and even what is unattractive. Many major differences are seen in the way men and women think at the initial meeting of a counterpart. For example, when asked what was most physically attractive, 26 women answered eyes. In comparison, when men were asked the same question, 21 of them
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