Even today in some cultures monogamy and love are not seen as a necessary part of a marriage, men or woman can seek out other needs and not be ridiculed for it It is believed mostly in Western culture that “married couples should be best friends, sharing their most intimate feelings and secrets. They should express affection openly but also talk candidly about problems and be sexually faithful to each other. Emotional happiness seems the ultimate goal. A happy marriage is defined differently throughout the world, but only recently have the emotional and sexual needs of the partners become emphasized. Sell2 This seems unrealistic when compared against a historical world view especially how Western Cultures revere marriage.
This type of love tends to occur in those with low self-esteem and those who gain confidence in pleasing their love interest. Mania and agape love are similar in that they both have the ability to develop into a very intense and unhealthy relationship for both parties. In both instances the parties involved have the ability to lose their sense of reality. The styles of love that have been most prevalent in my life are logical love called pragma, and friendship love called storge or philia. A love that develops from a friendship usually prevents a lot of disappointments because you already know a lot about that person.
Therefore, most individuals turn to their partners who have similar interests or values and promote equality (Feenstra, 2011). The idea that someone is playing hard to get appeases us. Individuals associate those who are playing hard to get as being selective about their social circle. Many reasons focus around why we pursue relationships with certain individuals and not others. The desire for camaraderie is essential to our humanly desires.
English 93 Ed’s Love or not Love Love is to want; to caring; to share with someone. In addition; romantic love is emotional attraction towards another person associated with love. Without the love relationship in both parties, it is only unrequited love, not a true romantic love. In “What We Talk About When We Talk About Love” Terri argues that despite Ed’s violent behavior he loved her. She says to Mel, “But he loved me.
This relates to the truth that people in today’s society are to quick in committing to others without second thought. If everyone had time to self reflect love would be perfect however, nevertheless this is not reality. Society’s judgment is clouded when it comes to real love, the moral in this essay is that we should take the time to get to know ourselves and look for a partner with the same interests, values and good personality rather than what is suggested by media (rich, handsome etc.). Everyone wants to be loved but true love is something special and should not be taken for
I think this poem also highlights the way we think others view us. Everyone wants to be liked and accepted. We are under the notion that in order to be liked and accepted we must fit a certain mold. We have preoccupied ourselves more with what other people think and have forgotten that it is what we think that is most important. We all long to feel beautiful and regard ourselves as perfect.
Chuang Tzu believed that how we perceive things are directly related to each of our separate pasts, or our “paths”. Also, that we need to realized that our conclusions and dispositions would be completely different had we experienced another past, even possibly just one single instance. Confucius believed that all things are naturally good. It is only if you haven’t pursued the way that you can turn out evil. He also believed that the most important characteristic of our personalities is created by how we treat others.
Brave New World Essay A perfect life, there no such thing as a perfect life, in Brave New world the ultimate goal is to achieve efficient, productivity and safety. These are thing that are very reasonable for a society to have but, to sacrifice ones freedoms and individuality for all of this is more or less, unimaginable. Brave New World pushes the limits of mans quest for perfection, it brings to light a side of human behavior which is considered now as “taboo”. The Brave New World explains a sort of utopia which is self destructive, it rules itself around perfection and promiscuity and also vanity. The create human to where they can conform only to the order in which their world requires and if any less they are removed and segregated to another part of their world and called savages.
We only have one life, so why spend it hating it? If you're unhappy with something, learn to love it or change it. Loving yourself isn't being conceited, it's being confident. There's nothing more beautiful than seeing someone who happy with themselves inside and out. Now that's
Purity within outshines what is on the face and it will always show no matter what he physical looks are. Another key difference between outer beauty and inner beauty is that, while physical beauty is mostly given naturally through birth, one can however work toward attaining true inner beauty by simply changing their characters to match what is attractive to the people around them. The