A Mexican Wedding

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Not too long ago I was invited to the wedding of a friend’s sister. It was to be a traditional Mexican wedding and since I had never been to a Mexican wedding I knew I would experience some cultural differences such as language barrier, wedding services, and family interactions. The first barrier that I encountered was the language barrier. I spoke absolutely no Spanish and very few people at the wedding spoke English. However, I was fortunate for having my friend with me who did speak Spanish, as well as English, and through her acting as a translator, and my new ability at the games of “charades” I was able to make it through the entire wedding with at least understanding what was transpiring. When I first arrived at the wedding I chose not to mingle with anyone, largely in part to the language barrier, however within a matter of minutes I was taken under the tutelage of some of the kindest and most respectful people that I have ever had the honor of meeting. Since this was a Mexican wedding and a mostly traditional one, the service was held in a catholic church. I was aware that a large majority of people of Latin heritage were Roman Catholic but I am not, and once again, I had to rely on my friend and others, as well as watching the moves and actions of others to know what was going on. Even the simple act of praying had to be explained to me. The wedding itself was quite similar to the most weddings in America. With just a few differences, one of the differences was in the groom’s choice of attire. While in an American wedding the groom will often wear a tuxedo, in a Mexican wedding the groom wears a Mexican style shirt, specially made for the wedding. Another difference that I took note of was the kissing of a cross. At first I thought that was symbolic of their love for Christ, but was told upon asking, that it was, in fact, meant to represent their

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