Do You Believe In Love At First Sight?Why Or Why Not?

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love at first site is impossible. Attraction and instinct are possible, but love has a snow ball affect. Something u think is love to start out with you keep finding it to grow deeper and deeper, love has no real definition, but love comes from trust, understanding, and patients, not just raw attraction. if love at first site wasn't taken so serious divorce rates wouldn't be so high. I know anyone can feel this way. As far as it being a sign that a relationship will endure because of this… nope. Love based solely on "sight" is definitely doomed, sooner or later. Relationships whose foundations are a maxim will eventually expose the exception to the rule they are based upon. Many people, will find parallels in their "love" to things they've seen in movies or romance novels. Some base their "love" on similarities to fairy tales or Disney cartoons. Anyone that is level-headed and not dazed by their current infatuation can see the disaster waiting to happen in that way of thinking. Love for the long run is probably a better thing to shoot for. Lets put this way maybe it is, because I am a little bit more like an adult… I don´t believe in love at first sight. For twice in my life I met people, I liked at the first sight very much, they waked my interest during the first seconds. They are in my mind until now, although sometimes I did not see them for years. But love, love is something so deep, so world shaking for loving people at the beginning, and growing to a fundamental thing after years of battles, trial and error, it grows with the years and if you are one of the few people in world, who could share it for a long life, you will be a rich person. Also I remember the words of an old woman, waked up from coma. She said, she saw "heaven", and there she found all people involved with their greatest love of all, they ever had in life. Her story impressed me deeply.
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