We must be patient and be able to tolerate varying amounts of floundering, confusion and false starts. We also must allow the individual to take their time to discover their own solutions while being honest with them without being judgemental. If for instance, an individual is showing lack of progress, we need to continue to motivate them and empower them to help themselves. The individual will be experiencing low self-esteem in these circumstances and we need to remind them of past successes. If progress is being made, we need to continue to encourage them and congratulate their progress.
Yes, I have had many obstacles that crossed my path but I want him to see that I didn’t just settle for less and that I am in charge of being able to accomplish my dreams and goals. I know that school will be difficult at times, but I am willing to put up with that constant struggle so I can have the feeling a self accomplishment when I am
When a dilemma arises, my responsibility is to support individuals or their families to make informed choices. Even if I disagree with their decision, I can only give advice but can not force them. If an individual is willing to do something that involves some risk, I have to support people to make informed choices. Totally avoiding risks would limit individual’s choices and opportunities and it can lead to dependency and depression. I have to act in the person’s best interest but instead of encouraging them to avoid risks I have to support them and enable them to taking part in activities.
Inexperience, fear, lack of trust, lack of understanding or knowledge, fear of rejection, lack of motivation, doubt, and fear of failure. What is an example of a mental model/mindset of yours that you would like to change? I would like to change the mental mindset that creates doubt in my mind when it comes to changes that take me out of my comfort zone in relation to my professional/academic life. I fear the unknown and doubt that I am able to achieve success if I change jobs or if I pursue a law degree. This fear inhibits me and keeps me in my comfort zone.
The first of which is a correct way of putting it, and the second way is a much more insensitive way of saying it. It is also important to make sure that we communicate the information at the correct time to prevent a misunderstanding of the message. The place and method of communication is also important in communicating a sensitive subject effectively and sensitively. The carer will need to bare in mind that there are many ways Argyles theory can switch into Shannon-Weavers at any point of the conversation because you may realise at the start the victim cannot hear you due to them being deaf, maybe they are blind and cannot see you which makes it harder to communicate. It might not just include Mrs Jones having sensory impairments; there may be a disruption if someone was to barge into the room, maybe to be nosey about the information being spoken about or for help with
I have previously tried using CD’s to try and help me with confidence, but after seeing this course was available I decided to take the matter into my own hands. EXERCISE 2 I have tried to do the relaxing exercises for this part of the course, but have found it difficult to find time to relax. This is not from want of trying, I have done the exercise but fund myself falling asleep and then waking up not feeling relaxed at all. I find myself easily distracted and I think this is one of the main reasons I have found it difficult to get myself relaxed. I hope when I start the course it will help with my techniques for relaxing and I will find it easier to do these relaxing
My definition of success is the results of perseverance and consistency. If I have a goal I must achieve, I will try my best to reach that goal. If I fail to achieve my goal, but I have tried my best and have gained a greater understanding of the task, then I feel as if I have succeeded. My mom, who has played a major role in my education, taught me the mentality of “never give up.” I guess that I live by the saying “Never give up, or you’ll never succeed.” I feel that it is okay to fail, as long as I learn from my mistakes. It is not okay to fear failure, because if we fear failure, we potentially begin to fear success, because most of the time we learn from mistakes, and if we are scared of making errors, there will be too much pressure placed on ourselves to succeed causing us to fail
I love to take responsibility when people can rely on me; thus whenever I could not accomplish it, I blame it on myself. I realized that I am such a Protector when I got the result by skimming back all the things that I have done for my family and my friends. I am an introverted person because I need my own private time to recharge myself. I do not like going to clubs and bars where there are so many people or the music is too loud. I always need to sit alone with soft music to think about what I have done each day in order to get myself ready to do other things.
My manager has recently told me that my strengths also fall in the logical range. I tend to lean towards policies, I am great at using logic to solve problems, and I make to do lists and following them logically. I believe that sometimes my logical thinking keeps me from doing impulsive things that would be fun, but I see those situations as out of control. I do desire to be more creative and artistic, but know that I will need to spend time learning those talents because they do
The "leave a trail" thing may mean to make sure that whatever you are doing, make sure that you are not harming others, or leaving a wake of destruction after you, or making choices that will not only affect you adversely, but others also; lead the way, and leave a "trail" for others to follow. I believe this quote represents me well because I live to lead not to follow. I believe for one to get far in life, they have to take chances; do things that some would not. I am creating a path for success and I am determined to make it. I am “leaving a trail” for my little sister to help guide her way through life, not to make it easy, but to help give her